“You Will Survive Your First Speaking Gig”
A wee while ago I did 5 speaking gigs in one week. That’s a lot even for me!
Two of them were completely new for me, too:
My first ever presenting to camera with a teleprompter (proper studio setup, terrifying stuff!)
My first time hosting a panel (I’ve been a guest before, but never the host)
And despite having years of experience on stage, doing stand-up, performing, and public speaking… it reminded me of something important:
🧠 Firsts are always nerve-wracking.
Even when you’re used to using your voice professionally, trying something new brings that wee fluttery uncertainty right back.
What helped fight my nerves?
I over-prepped. Oh jaesus did I prep…
I did my warm-ups
I breathed out, wiggled my toes, and released my shoulders
And then… I did the thing.
✅ I survived.
✅ I learned.
✅ I grew.
And so will you.
If you’re speaking for the first time, whether it’s:
Presenting a talk
Pitching in front of a big group
Using a mic for the first time
Being a guest on a podcast
I just want to say: I see you. 👋
You’re doing brilliantly.
The hardest part is starting, and you’ve done that.
There’s only ever one first time. After that? You’re officially on your way.
So here’s your reminder from someone who’s been there this week:
👏 You will get to the other side.
👏 You will survive.
👏 And there will be a next time.
You’ve fecking got this, friend. And if you need a helping hand with those warm-ups, check out my book here.
